Another #reverb10 post – today’s prompt is: What (or whom) did you let go of in 2010? Why?
I’ll answer the last question first: because it’s time.
As for the what (or whom) ….
Take a look at the tag cloud over to the right there. See the words Letting Go? The larger the word, the more times I’ve used the tag. If you click on it, you’ll get plenty of past posts about letting go. Four of them were written in 2010:
What I noticed while reviewing these posts is that letting go can be a cyclical process.
- Realize something wants or needs to be let go
- Decide to let it go
- (possible detour of waffling about letting it go)
- Let go
- Notice the energy of it remains or has returned
- Let go at an even deeper level
Sometimes it feels like what I release has a bungee cord attached to it. I let go, it bounces back. I let go, it bounces back. Eventually the cord wears out and snaps. No more letting go, simply gone.
I suspect that the bungee cord is made up of spirit (energy), heart, mind, body or some combination of these aspects.
Something is lodged in my energy field and needs purifying.
Some emotion is churning in my heart and needs to be fully felt.
Something is spinning in my mind and needs fierce truth and stillness.
Something is lodged in my body and asks me to pay attention to what has yet to be digested by spirit, heart or mind.
Then, I wonder …….
Every time we exhale, we let go
Nothing stays the same
Change is inevitable
There is no holding on
So, if there is no holding on, why are we so preoccupied with letting go?
I could get all Rumi-like on you here, but I’m going to shift gears. Can’t help myself, being a Gemini and all. So take a breath and relax (oh, that’s about letting go too) and when you are ready, read on…
Sometimes you just have to get irreverent and drop the spiritual correctness and the sentimentality.
This one, by Jo Dee Messina, says it all. Get your moxie and your dancin’ shoes on. “Buh-bye now!”
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